Family members and friends provide the first line of support for Canadian Armed Forces (CAF) and Royal Canadian Mounted Police (RCMP) members and Veterans living with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Here, family and friends includes a broad range of individuals from partners and children, to parents, siblings, and extended family, as well as those close to us whom we choose to call family or friends.
As a family member or friend, you may not have witnessed the traumatizing event(s) that your loved one lived through, but you can often experience the consequences. Without supports, you may struggle to provide support for your family member or friend with PTSD. You may feel isolated, exhausted, and stressed in your own right and need your own supports and resources.
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What is Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder?
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a disorder that can affect both your mental health and your physical health. It can be caused by a single trauma or many traumatic events.
Each person’s response to a traumatic event is unique and two people living through the same event may process it differently. Your family member or friend’s response depends on factors like their life histories, current situation and emotional characteristics. There is no weakness or fragility in feeling traumatized by witnessing or experiencing something horrific.
Your family member or friend will be diagnosed with PTSD by a healthcare provider if they are showing symptoms in each of the following four categories for a period of time longer than one month:
- Re-experiencing the feelings and sensations felt at the time of the trauma,
- Avoiding reminders of the trauma,
- Negative thoughts or feelings about themselves, those around them, or a situation or location,
- Being on edge or reactive, either physically or emotionally, without reason (also known as hyper-arousal).
Learn more about some of the things your family member or friend may be feeling if they experience PTSD.
Common Causes of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
PTSD can emerge from any number of traumatic situations. These may include:
- Military service in a conflict zone,
- Witnessing atrocities while on deployment,
- Incidents during service in uniform, such as domestic operations or Aid to the Civil Power,
- Experiencing a natural disaster and providing rescue/relief support afterwards,
- Terrorism or mass violence,
- Intimate partner or family violence,
- Sexual violence.
In addition to these traumatic situations, emerging evidence shows that oppression, such as discrimination and attacks based on your family member or friend’s gender, sexual orientation, race, and culture may lead to PTSD.
Experiencing moral injury can also increase your family member or friend’s risk for developing PTSD. Moral injury refers to the psychological, social and spiritual impact of events in which a person performs, witnesses, or fails to prevent acts that conflict with one’s own deeply held moral beliefs and values. To learn more about moral injury, visit this webpage.